We share our feelings and opinions.

1 2 3 We have girls/guys night out without jealousy becoming an issue.

1 2 3 When we settle an argument, it stays settled and does not become a recurring problem.

1 2 3 We can joke around with each other without one of us taking it the wrong way or getting upset.

1 2 3 We respect each other’s opinions, feelings, and beliefs. We see eye-to-eye on most things.

1 2 3 We like each other’s choices in friends.

1 2 3 We have good relationships with each other’s families.

1 2 3 Our fights do not escalate to the point of pushing and slapping.

1 2 3 I feel fulfilled and not lonely in the relationship.

1 2 3 We can argue without using threats of divorce or abandonment.

Now add up your points and assess your score:_______

36 to 42 “Copasetic”

If your score is in the 36 to 42 range, your relationship is in great shape.
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